Can I just check what the normal levels of ego-centric behaviour are in 5 year olds? My step daughter has just turned five and she seems to me to be entirely self centred/selfish. I am willing to fully accept that this is just how all five year olds are, and so I'd love to hear your stories about your five year olds to compare.
I suppose what I need to know is is it worth us trying to discourage her selfish behaviour if it is her personality/learned behaviour, or if it's just normal for five year olds to be like this then just to wait for this phase to pass?
Examples being: She never shares, hates anyone having anything she doesn't, always has to go first, hates any attention not being on herself, never says please or thank you and doesn't care at all if anyone else is upset because of her actions.
I'm not being nasty, or bitchy, just being factual and just asking if this is normal for a five year old or if there's a chance to nip it in the bud.
If it's not normal, how do we change it?
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Parents of five year olds: Can you let me know if your child is like this?
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Singlegaymumofonetoddler · 23/03/2015 11:05
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