I don't like the use of the word clingy as it feels so negative but I can't think of an alternative word! Ds is nearly 3 and is a very bright and verbal little boy. He went to a childminder two days a week for nearly two years and cried at pretty much every drop off in that time, even though he adored her and her kids. Now he's at nursery two days a week and does the same thing. They've also commented that he doesn't cope well with large boisterous groups of children and is happier in small groups. He's very close to all his grandparents and usually goes to them without a backward glance, regularly stays with them overnight etc, so it's not that he's never away from me, dh is very hands on and is absolutely equal in caring for him. So why does he get so upset and how can I help him?
It breaks my heart, and I'm starting a new job in September and he's going to have to go to full time nursery (at the school that I work at so we'll be onsite) but I look at children at school who get dropped off and they don't even give their mummies a backward glance! I don't make a big deal or elongate drop offs, I'm very positive and chirpy and reassuring, but it's getting me down.
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'Clingy' toddler.
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teacher54321 · 16/03/2015 23:01
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