arrgghh
DS is 3 1/4 and is just obnoxious in public, he really is. in a 1 to 1 situation he is delightful but in groups he is awful. Today, we were booked onto a guided walk for halloween at the local library and he was running off, not listening, demanding everything, stamping, screaming and shouting. I tried him on his reins and he was pulling and falling over. I'm having to use a stick to walk and he's pulling me over. I put him in the buggy, he screams and shouts. We're supposed to be on a guided walk, there's loads of others there, joining in with the songs and games. I couldn't inflict him on everyone else so I cut it short and went home. He's grounded in his room now.
I admit, I have not approached this well in the past and have resorted to shouting and smacking at a final resort but I have adopted new parenting techniques with the aid of surestart and his nursery school. Nothing seems to work at all. DS decides he's going to do something and he's going to do it his way.
I try hard not to let my illness (MS) inflict on his life and I try to give him interesting and enjoyable experiences but I am starting to feel 'why bother?' I may as well leave him in front of the telly with nothing to do.
Advice on what I can do would be really appreciated.
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at the end of my rope, need some advice
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Mummymonster · 27/10/2006 12:12
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