I'm hoping that mumsnet can provide some sage advice ! Ds is 9 years old and since he was quite young he has had a favourite toy,a rubber snake,which he loves (he is on his 2nd snake as he has worn the original out).I think he uses it as a kind of 'prop' - he plays with it (by flicking and banging it on the floor repeatedly) when he's not doing other things (drawing,writing,reading etc),sometimes when watching tv,other times just doing that... we've got used to it after so long so it doesn't seem strange to us,though if anyone were to observe this they'd probably think he was quite disturbed behaviour ! When I say he uses it as a prop,I think that it helps him focus on his thoughts and daydreams - he is obviously busily thinking of stuff while he is bashing away (he has a huge imagination and is very creative) - I used to do a similar thing as a child when thinking up stories in my head and would happily walk around the garden pushing a broom or bouncing a ball - it gave me something to do with my hands I suppose when I was conjuring up things in my head ... My dilemma now is whether I should be curbing this behaviour a bit - to wean him off it,or let him just get on with it. When it gets on my nerves I tell him and ask him to stop,which he does,or else he goes off to do it elsewhere.
Any ideas out there ?
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9 yr old boy -advice !
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binker · 11/10/2006 15:20
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