Don't even know how to start this post,I am just utterly devastated and sad...My older DD is incredible intelligent child,highly academic,very determined,lovely to people she likes (gives too much) BUT equally she can be very cold at the times and immature. Also she is very sporty,not into make-up and pink...
This year she started Y7 and for now she is in top sets of all subjects,she is really trying hard,she is not show off child either. It's just the way she is.
She is travelling by bus to school with 4 other girls from her primary school . One of them used to be her very close friend not any more. I did for that girl so much,from picking her up from school when her mum was abroad to giving her lunch money cause she doesn't have. Even my DD land her more than £6 which she never saw again. Anyway,they keep grouping against her in the sense of (this morning)-we have secret it's only us...or ignoring her.I am not protecting her but it's really not her fault. It's making me so upset and sad.
Two of them are main leaders, so one day is my DD another day someone else.They are very jealous kids and I really don't know what to say to my DD .There are so many things I could write but it would be too long.I don't want it to start affecting her learning which it will,I know.Also i she doesn't join them for lunch time they ignore her and if she joins them they are very mean...
I have seen it with my own eyes and I don't understand why??
They are not very high achievers,they love make-up and they love their Nicky Minaj which my DD is not into (not yet)...
Not sure what to do..She went to school very very sad ...On the bus stp I saw how they were rude and I saw sadness in my DD eyes.
Not sure what to say to her or advice.Please advice me,please I am becoming desperate .If you have any questions please ask because I know I missed a lot...
Thank you..
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lupo5 · 21/10/2014 09:25
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