My dd has always been quite hard work when it comes to children's parties. Whenever we go to a party she clings to me and won't join in with the activities on her own. Then she is constantly asking me 'when is the party bags coming'. It's like she is not enjoying the party at all and just wants to collect her party bag and leave :-) sometimes she warms up right at the very end. It means I dread taking her and although try to remain patient, I feel like pushing her away so I can relax a bit. She has just turned 5 and has always been rather demanding of me in particularly.
When I ask her about it she says it is because she is shy. But other things are fine. She is in a drama club and is very confident in performing and speaking out.
I just wondered if this is just a bad habit, a way of getting attention, or is this a sign of mild autism? She is also a highly sensitive child, smells will annoy her, we have had a terrible time with clothes and she won't wear clips of anything in her hair. She also has an obsession with screens! She loves tv to a point that I have never seen a child. So we have to really be careful how much she watches. She constantly says she's bored and looks at tv as a quick fix answer.
We went to rainbows the other day for the first time and she wanted to just watch. All the adults kept encouraging her to join in and I knew that would only make it worse. She seems to need to see how it works from a distant first before getting involved.
Anyone else got a similar child? I know all this probably sounds v familiar but it is quite extreme with her. Just needing a bit of reassurance and some suggestions!
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Parties are a nightmare - sign of autism in my 5 yr old dd
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Sunblushsister · 14/09/2014 14:20
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