Hi
Calling all mothers with good children. Can you help?
This morning my mother told me that my ds is a brat and she has had enough of him. She thinks that he needs a good hiding. Unfortunately due to a shocking couple of years I am now back living at my mother's house.
My ds has always been willful and has never been an easy child but he has hit the terrible twos and is hard work.
Anyway this morning whilst I was in the bath my mother tried to get my ds to have some breakfast but he refused to listen and ran off. She feels that I am too lenient with him and that is why he never listens to anyone but me. He does the screaming, and arching of the back to make things really difficult. I believe that she gave up on him months ago and he knows that after being asked to do something twice she will give up and my ds wins.
I sometimes feel it would be easier if she would completely back off and let me parent as she is always hoovering around telling me what I am doing wrong that I feel I have never had a chance to develop my mothering instinct. And as a consequence im a rubbish mum. It is much easier to parent after an argument when we are not talking.
Although in my defence I have had one evening/night off in 24 months when I was taken to hospital with a m/c. Im run down and sometimes the battles between me+mum and mum+son become too much.
Any advice, where have I gone wrong? Is it too many cooks? Or am just letting my son run riot.
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nataliejc77 · 06/09/2014 11:01
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