I have a 2 1/2 yo DS and have just had twins 2 weeks ago. Me and the twins spent a week in hospital and since we have been home my DS has been a terror.
We have always been very lucky with him and he never really hit the terrible 2's. We tried to prepare him as much as possible for the twins arrival but he is still very young and I am sure that even now it probably hasn't sunk in that they are here to stay.
Luckily he is lovely with the babies but he pretty much hates me and DH! He won't do anything he is asked to do and has become quite destructive and aggressive. I had expected it but don't really know how best to deal with it so that he gets over it sooner rather than later.
We include him as much as possible and don't ever tell him to "be quiet" because of the babies or "don't touch" the babies etc. we spend as much one on one time with him as we can but unfortunately there are just times when that isn't possible.
I am still pulling him up on any bad behaviour as I did before the babies but I feel like I am just telling him off all the time which is horrible. I always telling him how much we love him and when he's good he gets lots of praise and treats. I don't know if there is anything else I can do or whether that's it and we just need to ride it out!
What were your experiences?
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Trouble with DS behaviour after arrival of new babies
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hayesgirl · 05/06/2014 19:04
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