Hi all. I was after some advice especially from mums of boys. My ds2 8 has recently started touching himself a lot. I constantly catch him playing with himself outside of his underwear. I've just walked into the playroom to tell him to stay quiet as ds3 in bed and he was doing it again. Ashamed to say I shouted a bit. I don't want to see this I know it's maybe part of growing up but I'm not sure how to deal with it. He and his older brother have been caught a few times playing games where they are lying on each other in their pants. Im sure its all 100 per cent innocent. Ds1 is quite babyish when it comes to things like this as he's autistic. I have sat them both down and explained the underwear rule and said this applies to everyone including all family and siblings and that brothers must not touch each other and that the other is to come to me or another adult if this is done by anyone.
I know that ds2 is probably just of an age where he is curious perhaps it's more my problem. I'm concerned about hygiene issues as well as this is also the child that constantly has his hands in his mouth it drives us insane you can always hear him sucking at his fingers or licking his hand.
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BeauticianNotMagician81 · 03/06/2014 19:22
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