new mumsnetter here...long post alert. recently i've been getting really very stressed out with my daughter, she is my first child and is 3, i also have a 7 month old son who i still breastfeed. she never eats when or what i ask her to, doesn't listen to me and has started shouting at me (obviously what she has learnt from me, totally disgusted with myself).
its getting to the point where after the kids are put to bed i look back on the day and feel like crying for the way i have spoken to her. i feel like i take it well over the top but only realize this after i have a blowout. i did have PND with her but recovered after 15 months and i don't know if something similar has happened, i'm not depressed just realllllly angry and stressed all the time and cant control myself, shouting and swearing (sometimes banging my hand on the table when shes not eating or even throwing things across the room..never in her direction may i add). i would never hurt her because shes my daughter and i love her. im sickened by myself and want to know if anyone else has felt like this. also does it warrant seeing a health professional? if so where do i start, doctors or HV? i cant speak to DH about this as he doesn't really take me seriously, i think because i dont tell him often he thinks i just have bad days...every day is a bad day and every day i reach breaking point. i cant tell my mum, she doesnt understand, she just says dont be so hard on her, and i wish it was that easy.
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so stressed out with my 3 year old, i feel sick with myself at my behaviour
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boobiemumma · 21/04/2014 20:53
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