i have loving & caring husband,but his problem is he gets angry very fast & if you try to clarify the situation he tells he does not want to listen .Even after later stage he does not want to clarify. & is very much possesive about children & in front of children he is telling me to talk properly with children ,as a result children know that what papa says is right & what mama says ,can be right if papa tells so. & children have developed a habit of complaining against mama because father takes those complains seriously ( yestarday water supply was not there ) child is complaing to father ,due to mama water is gone .
if mama tells to finish homework ,child is not doing. When papa tells at least he tries to do the work .
I feel double problem-child has not done the work & second father tells how come he is not listening to you & he is listening to me.
He does not know because of his behaviour with mother child is not listening to mother. If i will tell the child u will not get pizza if you do not finish this work,husband will take it very lightly & he will shout on me that u do not know how to keep your children happy & he will order pizza.
As a result children are going into wrong direction. I can not understand how to handle the situation .most of the time i take approach,ok let him do whatever he wants,but when third persons tell about our children then he tells me mother should also teach children somthiong & i feel ,i am not allowed to say anything at the right time & when it comes in front of others i get the blaim.
Big tension in house.pls help!!
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CHHOTEE · 29/07/2006 14:22
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