Just after a few tips on how to manage my 15 month old DSs recent temper tantrums....
He's always been quite 'spirited' but the last couple of weeks (inc returning to nursery after the Christmas break and start of canines coming through) have been challenging....everything provokes a scream and back arching....getting dressed, nappy change, being out his his highchair, coat going on, put in pushchair, going in the bath, getting out the bath, had enough food, going in his cot, you get the picture. He goes into a total rage and flings himself around, kicks and pushes everything in reach, grabs at me if I try and put him down...and so on. He won't happily play on his own, just wants to be picked up all the time.
I'm trying to ignore the tantrums, keep calm and carry on with the task in hand - is this right? Or if we are just playing and he gets cross, I let him tantrum and carry on playing and he gradually calms and join in again. He gets cross if I hold him and cross if I put him down when he's in a state!
If he throws or kicks something I remove the item from his reach without saying much other than 'we don't throw, DS'.
I usually pick him up when he wants, but guess maybe I shouldn't always?
I know at this age he is not really in control of his emotions and he's not doing it to be difficult.... he is not quite walking or talking yet so probably really frustrated - but if there is anything I can do to encourage him to be a bit calmer and independent them I'd like to try! It's making life stressful for me and can't be enjoyable for him either. He's currently yelling in his cot - until 2 weeks ago he'd fall asleep without a peep!
Thanks in advance!
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Dealing with 15 month old tantrums / temper??
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LovelyWeatherForDucks · 14/01/2014 18:46
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