DD is a nightmare at bedtime and I've decided this has got to stop. I sorted something similar out when she was 2, but now she's 3.5 and is much more difficult.
Tonight I got her ready with no problem but she started to tantrum because I confiscated a toy that she had hit me with twice(confiscated after warning).
So, she started a meltdown over the toy - other nights it will be over the toothpaste, changing into pyjamas, face washing etc. Have given up brushing hair at night.
So, she hit me again, another toy confiscated. Escalation of meltdown. I distracted her eventually and calmed her down, then said it was bedtime. We went to her room to choose a book (I had 4 laid out on the bed) and she started to do her delaying routine - wanted to go to the toilet again but only if I locked myself in her room. I refused (she asked me to do that so she could sneak out and rescue the confiscated toys) and so she had another meltdown. I warned her that she was out of time with reading stories unless she went back into her room.
She carried on screaming for me to lock myself into her room from the bathroom then fled screaming to the other side of the house when I opened the door. She ran into her room when I went to get her. I gave her one more chance for a story but she told me to go away. I kissed her, said I loved her and good night.
She started screaming from the hallway. 10 minutes later I went back to ask if she was ready for a cuddle and to be tucked in. She started saying she wanted a book, to go to the toilet, for different pyjama pants etc. I told her there was a potty in her room and that it was now too late for stories.
I left her again, screaming. 10 minutes later I went back in and she'd trashed the room. I said goodnight, kissed her again and retreated.
Which is where we are now. She's screaming.
Bedtime has been difficult for one reason or another for years. She wakes early and I've had enough now. I need a child who goes to bed at 7pm, has stories and goes to sleep.
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Need to sort out bedtime from hell. Going on right now! Long Sorry..
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arfishymeau · 20/06/2006 11:02
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