My 3.5 year old is really playing up at nursery. He's been described as challenging by the team! They asked if I would support them getting the early years team involved, I met with them today and to say I'm upset is a massive understatement :(
Notes that's were made during the observation include:
The children lined up, DS took himself away
Chewing a rubber block ?
Let all the other children up the stairs - encouraged each one to go before him "off you go"
Struggled during a peg dolly activity, didn't understand that the glue needed to dry, got upset 3 times
Kicked off because the adult turned the tap off when he wanted to do it
Lined up up his bread and cheese, sat away from the other children.
I'm of course only focusing on the negatives but all this was observed in 45 mins!
His key worker told the assessor he has tantrums (lashes out, bites etc)
Only has 2/3 friends and struggles in large groups
Sometimes dribbles and sometimes his speech is unclear (this was a real shock to me)
Shows some repetitive behaviour
I feel like I've gone from thinking my son is a bit naughty but bright, funny and loving to on his way to some sort of label?
When I told my friends he was being assessed they were all pretty incredulous "he's one of the easy ones"
Don't get me wrong he can be really challenging, I'd describe him has 90% brilliant 10% absolute monkey!
He plays nicely with friends children, is bright, has a good vocabulary, is very cheeky and funny, very clingy to me, toilet trained + dry at night....
Anyone have any ideas or comments to calm me down.. :(
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mowmi · 22/07/2013 23:01
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