DD (9) seems to be deliberately winding everyone up at the moment - me, dh and her younger sister.
So we have just had lunch and she has made repetitive, random loud noises (knowing this is a pet hate of mine), blown her nose repeatedly in a deliberately yucky fashion whilst glancing at me and smirking at her younger sister and then stomped upstairs making as much noise as possible (having had this mentioned already this morning). Typically she will come downstairs and fling her arms about in front of her sister until she loses it too. Not the worst behaviour in the world maybe but is very effective in generating irritation!
Last week I decided on the love bomb approach on the basis she needed some one-on-one time. We had a really nice couple of days shopping etc. But once we were home, she was exactly the same. And I think it goes beyond holiday boredom because we have had a reasonably active break so far.
It seems deliberately attention seeking as she smirks and glances at me when told off - so I am tempted to ignore it (very hard when there is a physical fight going on).
So as not to drip feed - we moved last summer and although she has really settled well at her new school I wonder if she is in need of some tlc ?
Btw I realise it sounds pretty minor written down - and probably typical pre-teen stuff - but the effect of a whole day of winding up is significant! Anyone had any success with this type of thing?!
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Ignore, be firmer or love bomb? DD (9) being impossible!
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tempnameswap · 08/04/2013 13:32
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