OK, first of all I have not attempted the suggested strategy of giving him no alternatives so I know that is the way to go. My question is, how do I do this (be gentle with me and break it down in steps, pleeeease).
My ds is 26 months. He ate fine until he was about 20 months. He got a bug, went off his food and has never returned to it. He is very healthy, is a great big boy for his age (on 95th percentile for height and weight!) and is developing well in all ways and very chatty. A total delight - apart from mealtimes.
He loves breakfast. He would happily eat cereals and toast all day. He drinks smoothies and fruit juice too. So that is good. No other meal goes well though and the list of foods he'll eat is getting smaller. He won't eat any fruit or veg at all - all he will eat are the babyiah fruit pots (won't eat my home-mashed fruit) and raisins. This really worries me. For lunch he will only eat toast, oatcakes or pancakes, either toasted with cheese or with peanut butter or spreadable cheese. He loves yoghurt and eats lots of that. For dinner he will only eat French toast or plain omelette. Then yells for custard or more weetabix. He'll eat snacks of ricecakes or cereal bars or baby crisps, but is loathe in general to try new things.
I do offer him different things but they are thrown out as he shouts NOOO and won't try them. I end up (and I know this is where I am going wrong) making him something I know he'll eat and/or distracting him with tv or toys to get him to eat it (and this is only the foods he'll eat, no amount of distraction persuades him to try new stuff.
He just doesn't seem that hungry, though he's a big strapping boy. The only time he says he's hungry is if he thinks of breakfast cereal or custard!
I know he's controlling things and he's 2 and I'm the adult. I know you can't force anyone to eat. But how do I start doing it right? Did a mixture of finger foods and purees when weaning btw, I didn't set him up with any texture difficulties etc.
Do I start by focussing on one meal (it would be dinner, that's the biggest problem) and just offering NOTHING else? What do I do about snacks? What about when he's crying feeling hungry at bedtime? Sorry for all the questions but feeling low about it and finally Ready For Action!
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Please tell me the steps to take to stop my 2 yr old ridiculous eater eating ridiculously
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beatofthedrum · 04/03/2013 18:34
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