Hi new to this but really need some advice. My son has just turned 3 and I really struggle with him. He is either lovely, cuddly mummy's boy or I want to throttle him! Has always been like this but it really has to stop.
He does not listern at all, today ran straight accross a road after I had said to wait. Never follows even the simplest instructions.
He is distructive and at times violent - mostly at home with his sister and all our things. Yesterday he destroyed all the jigsaws the three of us had been doing because I left the room to make their tea. He hits her, the cat me etc. He throws things especially food.
He does not sleep well - either wakes up multiple times needing me to lay in his bed to get him back to sleep or wakes at 5-6 thinking it is morning climbing in our bed and wriggling about.
I really find deciplining him hard. I use/have used the naughty step, shutting him in his room, smacks, dinal of treats, sticker charts etc All seem to work in that instant but have little long term affect.
Any tips? My daughter is so much easier - no angel but follows rules, responds to instructions etc I just seem to spend the whole time shouting at my son and count the years till he can go to school.
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Limbo1 · 01/10/2012 16:57
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