the two dds have been made to sit on their beds.
Unfortunately they share a room which they are incapable of keeping vaguely tidy. They constantly leave piles of tatt around the house. They are rude, answer back and are always hitting each other.
All my friends and teachers say what lovely polite children they are- they are not they are monsters.
I don't know how to improve the holidays.
We have tried all kinds of behaviour improving tactics and I really do not know what to do. Is it just their ages or what.....?
Dd1 is 8 and blames her sister for everything, then has huge guilt trips and blames herself and is very rude and precocious to me. Classic lines being has this got nuts in it?, knowing that i would never give her nuts as she is allergic to them. SHe over mothers her younger brother and shouts and really hits hard at her sister.
Dd2 is 4.5 and when she is lovely she is wonderful, when she is horrid, she is deeply nasty. She never does as she is asked and it is driving me potty.
I cannot face another day of negotiation deteriorating to me yelling like the best fish wife at them. Just to explain, I never get more than three hours of broken sleep a night due to ds having chronic eczema etc.
Please help- am crying already.
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Pudmog · 22/12/2005 08:51
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