I'll try to be brief. My 28 mnoth old ds is a lovely, chatty chap. Up until 6-8 mnoths ago he had real probs adjusting to new situatinons ie new m&t group etc, but this has improved a lot recently.
About 6 weeks ago I had to return to work (no choice in this.) Care is shared between my parents, in-laws and a very good friend.
Friend looks after her granddaughter who is v similar age to my ds, and my ds has known them both for about 2 yrs. 1st 2-3 mornings with my friend he was fine. Last couple have been getting worse. He doeasn't want to do anything she suggests and seems very "on edge." She mentioned that he had a thing about habdwashing after he'd touched the chalk this week, and was just generally very difficult to please. He WAS unwell last week, but has seemed fine the last couple of days at home.
He used to be a bit funny about touching stuff like playdough, but (at home) seems to have got over this. I am 100% happy that the friend has not done anything to upset him/hurt him (know her well, she has worked with SN children in the past, so knows a few tricks!)
I'm happy with his development in every other way, and he doesn't seem fussy about his hands at home. I'm feeling anxious abiout his behaviour when left with my friend though as he is due to start playschool 2 morns a week in Jan (another change I know )
Do you think he's just sussed that mum going to work is a permanent thing? (No one else that has him has commeted that he has been "difficult." Any similar experiences or suggestions appreciated.
Have discussed with dh and my friend (she only has to have hiim 3 more weeks due to chrimbo etc, and is happy to do this.) We think that we need to stick at it as he doesn't get the "option" of going to school/playschool.....
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Odditiy of my 28 month old ds, anyone?
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ETsmum · 23/11/2005 22:05
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