Many toddlers and preschoolers may shove, hit and kick others. Some do it from time to time, others more than that. Threads here often refer to a child under 5, even as young as 2 years, as being a bully.
Someone (jimjams?) on another thread questioned whether this is an appropriate term to use for a young child's behaviour. I question it as well.
A very young child IMO can be naughty, aggressive, not good at controlling their emotions, etc but is not a bully, as I understand it anyway. To me a bully is someone who launches a systematic, pre meditated, cold blooded attack on a victim and I don't believe under 5s are capable of this type of thinking. But my sons have never been bullied so I could be very wrong here.
I just wondered how old you think a child has to be before you can say truthfully that, he/she is a bully?
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How old does a child have to be to be a proper bully?
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tigermoth · 12/09/2003 20:43
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