I'm 27 weeks now, first baby.
We are thinking about names (we think it is going to be a boy but noone outside here knows that).
Mr mags and I have been together nearly 10 years but for various reasons we aren't married. However, even if we do get married I will not change my name.
So now we are stuck with the tricky subject of what to call our baby.
I seriously object to calling him by Dads last name - the child has two parents and for the same reason as I would never change my name, I want my child to have my name too. Plus its a very silly name! For the same reasons I don't think it would be right to just use my name.
On principle I don't think it is right to automatically give dads name, but (call it feminism if you like) I really would not feel comfortable with that.
I think to hyphenate is best (and it sounds best with myname-dadsname rather than the other way round) but a few people have said it sounds chavvy or pretentious - we aren't either, by the way! We are both professional people in our late 30s so not bothered about all of that!
Opinions?
By the way the first name is going to be something traditional and simple like James.
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mags98 · 17/02/2009 21:29
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