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1horatio · 21/06/2016 22:01

  1. Clarissa (my favourite. But I didn't really consider it up to now because MIL doesn't like it...)
  2. Carlotta
  3. Miranda
  4. Erika
  5. Louisa (so so lovely, used to be a name I wanted for DC when I was in middle school. But it's a little bit... ordinary, imo. MIL loves it)


Godparents will be Raychelle and Brigham.
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KingJoffreyLikesJaffaCakes · 21/06/2016 22:03

Carlotta was the bitchy one in Phantom Of The Opera.

But the other names are lovely.

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MrsChrisPratt · 21/06/2016 22:04

I like, in this order:

4
1
2
5
3

But it's your baby, choose what you like. Ignore Mil.

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Laquila · 21/06/2016 22:05

If it's not a daft question, why are the godparents' names relevant? Are you using them as middle names? Also (and again, this mighty be a daft question), does it really matter what your MILS thinks??!

FWIW, my order of preference is:

  1. Carlotta (reminds me of the Chalet School!)
  2. Miranda


Other three all equally nice as each other but the above two are my faves.
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steppemum · 21/06/2016 22:05

not sure what the godparents names have to do with it?

I don't like Erika, but all the others are pretty.
Carlotta sounds very spanish to me.

I think Clarissa is my fave.

Why don't you keep a short list and then wait till you meet her?

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WhyHasAllTheRumGone · 21/06/2016 22:07

1, 4, 5, 3, 2.
I love Clarissa.

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1horatio · 21/06/2016 22:16

They're not really relevant. I just talked with Raychelle about babynames this evening and Idk. I think I'm a bit scatterbrained... Sorry!

MIL apparently had an annoying great-aunt called Clarissa....

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Allalonenow · 21/06/2016 22:16

My favourites are Clarissa which is beautiful and classic and will stand the test of time, and Miranda which is extremely pretty.

Carlotta and Erika both sound quite harsh to me, and you would have to like the inevitable Lottie nn with Carlotta.
Louisa, while quite pretty, is a bit dull and not a patch on Clarissa. Don't be influenced by MIL, she has had her go at naming a baby.

(Please don't call her Raychelle)

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PotatoBread · 21/06/2016 22:17

What is the relevance of the godparents names? And ehat does it matter that your MIL thinks?

It's entirely up to you! Though seeing as you asked I like Clarissa and Erica - spelt with a c though, hate it with a k

I don't really like any of your other options

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1horatio · 21/06/2016 22:18

It's really important to me to have a name ready for her.

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Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 21/06/2016 22:27

Carlotta. Makes me think of EastEnders Car lot.
All the others though are very pretty

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Sophronia · 21/06/2016 22:43

I love Carlotta and Louisa

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WanderingTrolley1 · 21/06/2016 22:48

Louisa or Clarissa.

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1horatio · 21/06/2016 22:50

Allalonenow, yup, the first time I read the name Raychelle I was a bit Confused Hmm.
But then I met her sibblings. It's probably a religious/cultural thing. But Raychelle looks super normal to me (now...).

Well, at least noone seems to hate the name Clarissa. So yay :)

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Bluesand1 · 22/06/2016 08:02

Louisa

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ShortcutButtons · 22/06/2016 08:14

What would Clarissa be shortened to? It's a bit long not to have a nn.

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CourtJester · 22/06/2016 10:11

My Order is...

Louisa - Lovely, classic and not too popular at the moment. If you say it's borning and wanted more interesting you could go for Eloisa/Elouisa, which is nice too
Miranda - Nice, underused name. Strong and very suitable for an adult, but could also have cuter nicknames for a child (Mimi, Miri, Andie)
Carlotta - Okay, but i would love it if it was Carly or Charlotta.
Erika - Prefer the Erica spelling, but an okay name. Quite American compared to the others on your list.
Clarissa - Sorry, but i will be that one who hates this name! IMO it's too posh, prissy, snobby, private schoolgirl sounding. Lissa or Lissie are okay, but the full name is a no.

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1horatio · 22/06/2016 10:19

Issa, Issie, Rissa, Clary/Clarie, Claris, Clee, Clover, Clare, Clay, Clar (like car but with an l), C, CC (ceecee), Keekee...Or some mix up between first and middle name.
Or a nn that doesn't derive from Clarissa at all. DH's nn doesn't seem to have a connection to his first name... But I don't really worry about finding a nickname, to be honest. Nicknames will be found (or invented) when needed. At least imo.

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1horatio · 22/06/2016 10:29

Well, DH and his sibblings went to private schools (I didn't go to school in the UK. But I did go to a private kindergarten and primary). So, "private school girl sounding" is not negative imo (but prissy, snobby etc obviously is).

My SILs kiddo (DH's goddaughter) is called Clementine (if it matters). Nns are Minty and Apricot (and Apree)... And Apree only has a rather vague fruity connection to the name Clementine...

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saffronwblue · 22/06/2016 10:31

Love Clarissa and Miranda. Would you consider Vanessa?

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1horatio · 22/06/2016 10:38

Vanessa is such an 80ies name where I come from. Just like Jessica, Leonie and Jasmin (ok, those are more early 90ies late 80ies). All pretty names. But just not old enough to be cute again. If this makes sense....

But Vanessa is very pretty :)

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KoalaDownUnder · 22/06/2016 10:41

I love Miranda to bits, and also like Clarissa. Actually prefer Carissa (without the 'L').

Louisa is pretty.

Carlotta sounds a bit masculine (no idea why; maybe just because I know a few boys called Carlo?)

I hate Erika, spelled either way. Dated, harsh, ugly. (Sorry - brutally honest opinion from total stranger!)

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KoalaDownUnder · 22/06/2016 10:42

Also love Clementine, by the way!

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1horatio · 22/06/2016 10:48

Yes! Clementine is so so lovely. But my own name ends in -ntine, plus DH's godchild. So this one is a nono.
Erica flowers are really pretty and I like the name. But seeing as its not my favourite and apparently American sounding (not that this is bad. The godparents are actually Americans)... Anyhow, I don't mind the criticism. You probably just wrote what people would think IRL. Which is the advantage of the internet in this case.

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purplefox · 22/06/2016 11:00

I hate Carlotta, it just reminds me of a car parking lot. Potential for name calling at school?

I like Clarissa and Louisa, also Vanessa as someone else suggested.

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1horatio · 22/06/2016 11:03

So, you guys don't think naming DD after MIL's grouchy great aunt is cruel/rude?

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