As I'm 23 weeks, DH and I think we should probably start thinking about names. This is our first and we chose not to find out boy or girl.
To help narrow our thinking, I came up with a few rules of names to avoid, which DH has said he's ok with:
- No family names to avoid bickering
- No names with the same first letter as DH's surname to avoid alliteration
- No names with the same first letter as either mine or DH's first names because I had a childhood of two family members constantly opening each other's post and it drove them both mad
- No names beginning with L or an L sound as baby's cousins ALL have those names, i.e. Laura, Elliott etc. and I'd like to be a bit different.
I've mentioned this to a few people and they've said I'm making it really hard on myself by ruling out so many options. What do you all think? We are struggling to come up with names we like, but that's partly because we don't know what we're having and partly because we haven't found anything we've really loved and most of them are just ok.
Did / have you come up with similar rules when choosing names? Did it help or make it harder? Did you even stick to them in the end?