I'm quite upset with MIL. We named dd1 after my wonderful mom, she's the best & I mentioned at the weekend how my mom is thrilled with a namesake, MIL replied I would never have thought that X was a version of mams name & I would never have associated the 2, even though it was said to her all along DD1 was a version of mams name, she was quite vicious about it.
All along to keep her happy we have said if we were lucky enough to have another dd it would be named after her but her behaviour over the last week & lack of interest & support with our dd I have said to dh that I no longer want to use her name as my daughters name... Dh is like we have to seeing as we have told her & all the family next child will be after her. I said I'm happy with her getting second name but I think I'd regret naming dd after such a nasty woman but I also don't want my daughter to be resented by her nor do I want to be seen as using her name as ammunition or a war weapon against MIL!!!!!! HELP, advice please.
BTW not pregnant but hope to be soon, so upset still about the way she spoke about my mom:(
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YummyMummybee · 24/07/2013 17:19
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