I was feeling fairly optimistic after the 12 week scan (which turned out to be a 13 week one!) after finding the nuchal measurements were normal (2.1mm). Had the blood tests done and wasn't too worried until I received "that phone call" from the midwife with my risk as 1:75, caused by high HCG (4.43) and my age (think I have heard "my age" mentioned more in the last few weeks as I have in my whole life!). PAPP A was OK, infact higher at 1.85. We have booked an amnio next week, but I am just terrified about what to do if the result is positive. I've stopped thinking about my bump and the future and can only drag myself throug each day waiting. The counsellor at the hospital was great, but all I can think about is someone has to be unlucky, and that tends to be me. Partner is being fab and v supportive, but I'm lying awake at night, heart pounding and worrying about "what ifs". I did think I'd go ahead with the pregnancy whatever, but now I'm just scared. Any advice (apart from to get a grip!?!).
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