Today I am finding very hard, I don't know why it is any harder than any other day but I just want to hide and cry.
I am pregnant with DC3, 22 weeks, we had to try for nearly 18 months (not long compared to some I know) I had sickness until about 17 weeks and this little one seems to want me to be mostly vegetarian. I have strong food aversions and my diet is crap.
I have SPD and currently have crutches as the physio didn't want to treat at the time as I was in too much pain. I am going back on Thursday and hoping the physio will help. I have Codeine to take when the pain is too much but the last time I gave in and took it I had horrible stomach pains. So generally I don't take anything. I can't even manage walking around a supermarket without the crutches. anything more than around the house is like a mountain to climb.
I have been signed off work for 2 weeks and this is the start of the second week, due back next Monday. I work in admin for the local council, I enjoy my job but my manager is awful, she shared details about the lack of risk assessment for me with an equal colleague and when I called her on it said it was my fault because the colleague knew I needed one, then authorised the colleague to have access to my emails despite this never having happened before when I/others was off. I got IT to shut down access but still it felt like a direct attack from her because I dared to challenge her. I'm dreading Monday and speaking to her because I know I will probably end up crying.
This is my third child and my partners first, my DC1&2 are aged 8&9 and stay with their dad half the time, he was an abusive bastard emotionally with me. I am now scared for the boys because the school are putting in a referral to SS re him as the youngest said about seeing his Dad kicking his new GF.
My partner is wonderful, I love him dearly and I am treating him like crap, I feel I have withdrawn and don't want sex because my life is pain. I am snappy and distant and he really doesn't deserve it.
I don't know what to do, I can't wait to have our little one in my arms but at the same time I really wish I wasn't pregnant because I can't cope with the pain all the fucking time. I wake up every time I need to roll over, I'm exhausted, I'm a useless drain as even trying to manage cooking and general household stuff is just too hard. I'm stubborn and independent and don't see why I can't just cope. I am pregnant not ill or disabled but everything is just too hard.
I really don't know how to cope with another up to 20 weeks of this.
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ChocolateTeacup · 09/05/2016 16:05
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