MIL believes in Angels. She talks about them all the time - anything not going right? Call the angels to help you. She has come to stay for a week and brought a box of angel cards/'special stones' feathers and meditation music.
Now she has 6yo DD2 completely believing all this stuff and gave her an angel feather to show at school, which had the expected outcome that some of the other children made fun and were (in her words) mean to her.
I am completely sceptical about all of this and, while I respect MIL's right to believe whatever she wants, I do not want her filling my DD's heads with it. When you are a child and someone you love tells you such things, you believe them to be true. There's no lightheartedness in it - she is almost indoctrinating her captive audience.
MIL is a lovely woman with a really good heart and I don't want to outright say 'Do you mind not filling them with this nonsense' but I really don't want them (DD2 especially) to be so full of it all. Fine, tell them about angels/fairies whatever and let them have their own little fantasies of the magic of it, but I do object to presenting it as fact. I don't want DD2 to be mocked because MIL has convinced her that it is all true and then sends DD into the world to convert the rest of her friends. How do I get it across MIL I am unhappy with the DDs being indoctrinated without hurting her sensitive feelings?
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GrumpyOldHorsewoman · 18/06/2010 12:41
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