We cannot seem to agree what to do for summer holidays. I want (for the first time in 8 years) a nice and relaxing beach style holiday, where the kids play on the beach, and we just chill.
He wants an active holiday with campervan, but at the same time he is pissed off with me that I am not fit enough to have a cycling holiday, and is effing and panting about there being NO point in even taking the bikes.
I am knackered. I have had one heck of a few years, for the last few years. I am behind with everything. The last thing on my mind is exercise. Heck, I get up 7 am with the kids every day, take them to school, do all the housework, have my job, juggle our rental property in London (with many many issues) my elderly parents (mum with alzheimers and dad who is paralyzed after a stroke), and he farking blame me I have not had time to stick to a fitness regime. I am living a launrdy and mess mayhem!! WHEN should I exercise..... I take the kids to their activities, and manage everything to do with them.
He focuses on : His work. He might unload the dishwasher a few times per week, and clear some of the dishes from the dinner table, and that is it.
I want to book a beach holiday to either Portugal or Italy, and take the kids, but not him. AIBU?
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QSincognitoErgoSum · 14/06/2010 20:55
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