I think my DH spends a lot of time with people who work away from home and has got things out of perspective - or maybe I have. Please advise.
How happy would you be if your DH was to want to accept a job working over 500 miles from home, flying there for 3 days a week, with a fourth day travelling from home and back in a day (200 mile round trip in the opposite direction). Was happy-ish for this, but he has now revealed that he has semi-promised the fifth day away from home too if they need him. I was hoping that, given I won't see him for the initial half of the week, he would agree to work the final day from home (this was what we had agreed). By the time our children are in bed, we will have about 2 childfree hours together all week.
3 children under 9 (youngest 3). Also means that if I go back to work this next year, our children will have to go to afterschool care most probably, which is something I thought we wanted to avoid.
I know there is a recession etc though, jobs scarce bla bla bla
Am I being unreasonable? Would your family work on this basis? would you want to live like this?
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PercyPigPie · 02/06/2010 19:34
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