Hi all,
I've been involved in other threads but never started my own so here goes! I apologise in advance for how long this will probably be!
My DP have been together for nearly 4 years with one 16 month old DD. We've always felt the same about the importance of getting away with our friends for girls/boys weekends etc. DP goes away for weekends twice a year on average with his mates from back home (he moved from norfolk to bham when we bought a house together) I've always been perfectly fine about this. Still am. Sometimes some of his mates from back home that go are girls. Again, no problem with that. I've met them and hes known them for years. He says he really enjoys going without me becaause it's his chance to spend quality time with his old mates. Again...perfectly fine!
The issue is this: The next weekend they are planning, some of the girlfriends of his mates have been invited and are going. Some of the girlfriends that my DP doesn't know at all or not very well and have been with his friends a lot less time than we have been together. Am i wrong to think that if girlfriends are invited to this one, then i should be too??? He has said that he still doesnt want me to go, as he likes seeing his friends without me, but those friends girlfriends are going to be there!
I have absolutely no problem with him being away from me or with other women. I trust him, and i love a good weekend away with my girly mates, but if my girly mates were taking their DPs or DHs, i wouldn't dream of not inviting him!
The stupid thing is i probably wouldnt go, as we struggle to find babysitters for whole weekends. its just the principle!! :-)
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Linziwam · 26/04/2010 14:16
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