my closest friend has 2 DC 4&8 yrs and I realise juggling motherhood & work is difficult but we have always had a relationship where you can ring any time of day or night wheter in floods of tears or not and have supported each other through hard times.
At the age of 37 I now have a DS of 13 weeks and have found the transition to motherhood very difficult after being so independant & working full time for so long.
We usually manage to meet up or visit at about twice a year as we live 3 hours apart but despite my best efforts during my pregnancy she was always too busy or never got back to me. When she finally had time I was nearly due, had high blood pressure & could no longer drive. Even when I was admitted to hospital I never got a call.
Since DS was born she has phoned once but texted lots to say I will phone you tonight but never does. I keep in touch with some friends via facebook and notice she is finding time to play games on there. That may sound contradictory on my part as I am blatantly on facebook too but not playing bloody farmeville or whatever.
AIBU here and should I just phone her and ask if everything is ok? Maybe I am still hormonal but I feel I have needed support and it has not been there. I know I am a stubborn cow but I feel quite sad about this
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mumoffraser · 02/04/2010 09:30
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