We recently took DS to a 5th Birthday party for one of his class mates.
One little girl's mum & dad just dropped her off and picked her up at the end. They do this at every party (have been to a few now!).
For the whole party she just wandered around, visibly upset asking for her mummy. She pretty much stayed in the kitchen and didn't want to play any of the games. Another mum spent pretty much the whole party consoling her.
This is not the first time this has happened, it was the same at DS's party and DH ended up comforting her for pretty much the whole thing. They didn't even say hello, just dropped her off and left!
So my question is, would you say anything? Her parents both work full time but surely they could spare 2 hours out of the weekend to have some fun with their kid? I absolutely appreciate that time is short and working all week leaves little time for errands etc. at the weekend.
I have absolutely nothing against dropping children off at parties if they're happy to be left, another little girl was left alone but was perfectly happy and I usually see her dad at these things so it's not every time.
I have said to DH that maybe they don't know that she's upset at these parties and maybe we should just try to make a very gentle comment about it when it happens at the next one to see if they're even aware? Giving the benefit of the doubt and all that.
Ok, lay into me then!
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Muppet123 · 17/01/2010 16:09
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