PavlovtheForgetfulCat
Wed 04-Nov-09 17:58:29
Vile place...he only does it so he can have a burger
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I would prefer she did not eat in such places, but I guess, he can take her where he wants when he takes her out.
IABU aren't i?
RainRainGoAway
Wed 04-Nov-09 17:59:58
How often?
If every day, every other day or every third day (etc) YANBU
If every week or so. Meh. YABU.
Depends how often really.
I wouldnt like it every week, but if only now and then why not? I take my DCs to McDonalds when I fancy a burger too 
i agree it depends how often. if its not all the time but just now and then, yabu as dd is his daughter too so he does also get a say
ParanoidAtAllTimes
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:01:18
It is vile but I guess once in a while won't hurt 
How old is your DD?
YABU if it's just an occasional "treat" (and your dd will see it as a treat whatever you think).
Obv. if it's 2 or 3 times a week, that's another matter.
PavlovtheForgetfulCat
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:01:35
LOL, when he thinks he can get away with it. Today. I don't think he has taken her for a couple of weeks before that.
Would not mind so much if he brought me something back from marksies, but no, just a big yellow balloon and a plastic toy that has created an eyesore in my otherwise lovely tidy home.
[grr]
bigchris
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:01:50
ok dont take offence but is yohr dh the one who gave you the silent treatment at the weekend and has been very pmtish with you?
if i'm right i would honestly let it go! at least he took interest in taking her somewhere 
RainRainGoAway
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:02:54
Is DD 3 9 months old. YANBU
Is DD 13 years old. YABU!! 
PavlovtheForgetfulCat
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:03:20
I am talking about 'ever'. AIBU to not want DH to take DD to McDonalds. Ever.
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I am to be fair being a little tongue in cheek, but, I think of her poor little 3 year old tummy and how long it will take her body to process the concrete food he has just fed her
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YABU about McDonalds once in a while
YANBU about the plastic gack that seems to grow exponentially and take over your home. 
PavlovtheForgetfulCat
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:09:06
bigchris, I read him this thread! He knows I don't approve, and we are having a bit of a laugh about it luckily. But on the condition he knows I am being lighthearted but still don't like it. I guess i will accept it, but said only next time if he buys me something nice from the cake shop opposite 
Usually he tried desperately hard to hide the evidence but somehow I find out. Normally by a tiny little weeny bit of straw wrapper in the car, or a salt sachet, or since I have been pregnant, the smell.
He now thinks he might take her every couple of weeks
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PavlovtheForgetfulCat
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:10:12
He said 'its ok, i only bought her a little hamburger, not a happy meal'.
So where does the balloon and plastic crap come from then
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like in some way a hamburger is better than a happy meal - it's all shite
loving the reasoning...
RainRainGoAway
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:16:42
Aw - i Love the idea of Daddy and dd bonding over illicit crap food. Him furtively spooning sundae into her happy little head.
Its strangely touching!
ErikaMaye
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:17:22
Pavlov NO why did you have to mention that place?! I now want a double cheese burger...

I wasnt yawning at you MadameDefarge, just at the whole Mcdonalds debate again!
PavlovtheForgetfulCat
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:27:58
Oh has there been a debate that I missed? Damn, hate to be unoriginal and all that 
PavlovtheForgetfulCat
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:30:11
The thread came about from me tripping over a horrendous McDonalds Balloon, rather than a great desire to discuss the finer points of whether to, or not to take toddlers to fast food chains.
But if others wish to do so, <opens the gate> go right ahead {grin]
I admit it comes under the topics to be revived despite having flogged to death category (pace private v state schools etc)
but hey, always nice to have an old soap box wheeled out for general unreasonable shouty fights!
missingthepumpkin
Wed 04-Nov-09 18:36:14
i should have name changed for this - a McD Fry was dd's first solid food. She chose it herself from the debris on the table in front of her. 