Just been speaking to an old friend - haven't spoken to her for ages, and have just been told about their summer from hell.
It's a long story, but I'll try not to go on!
Right at the beginning of the summer holidays, my friend had another friend over for the day, with her children and some others over - all children of some of her best friends.
To cut a long story short, my friends son -aged 11, was in the same room as the younger boys when they started doing dares, one of the dares was to lick each other willies (disgusting, I know, but nothng sexual in it at all, just nasty little boys) The 11 year old didn't do anyhting, but because he was in the room, one of the mothers had it down as a depraved sex act, and only the 11 year old could have instigated it (in fact he had nothing to do with it).
All summer, they have been seen by police and social workers, until an older social worker (who'd brought up 4 sons of her own) pulled rank and stopped it all - it was quite obvious that it wasn't some case of sexual abuse, just naughty little boys doing the most disgusting thing they can think of, so after nearly three months of strain and stress on the whole family, they are now free of all this.
Now, if I met the woman who rang the police without talking about the situation, and actually finding out what had happened, and then to contact other of my friends friends to tell them that by standing by her and her son, they were encouraging child abuse in the community, I don't honestly know what I'd do to her To knowingly do this to someone who was a friend, when you know the son well enough to know he wasn't some sort of junior paedophile, beggars belief.
I want to kill her (obviously not really, but you know what I mean!), or at least inflict the pain and uncertainty that she inflicted on an innocent family.
I'm also worried, as the mother of DS's, how the hell can I protect my sons from this? Anybody could make an accusation, and as long as the boy is over 10, they will be guilty until proven innocent - as happened to this poor boy.
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HKT · 04/10/2009 14:00
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