My sister is pregnant with her second. Her first is 11 months old and #2 is due in September (no it was not planned that way). She met her now partner and slept with him on the 1st date and ended up pregnant. They have decided to make a go of it.
They both have very differnt backgrounds. She is ex private school turned drug user and prostitute but is now back on track. He is 15 years older, yobbo, no education, heavy pot user who is still living the bachelor lifestyle.
He is of the belief that because she stays at home he does not need to do anything in the house and barely plays with his daughter. My sister was hospitalised twice for hyperemesis udring her first pregnancy and lost heaps of weight and then had PND. He did not help out much at all.
Now with this pregnancy my sister is not coping (no idea how whs will cope with 2 under 16 months), her DP does nothing, she has lost more weight. Is stressed and tired, is skin and bone and is now past fat loss but into muscle loss.
She is on the other side of the world and I really do not know what to do. I want to help. I want to tell her DP to pull his head in and act like a father and partner but I do not want to overstep the boundaries but I feel that if nothing changes she will end up losing the plot completely.
So do I do anything?
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To interfere in my sister life? (bit long sorry and I think I am a bit)
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SchrodingersCat · 21/04/2009 18:29
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