Its our anniversary at the weekend and I have been carefully planning a thoughtful, lovely present.
I went shopping for it yesterday (unbeknownst to DH). When DH gets in from work he asks what me and DD have been up to today (DD is 4mo, I am on mat leave).
I said "Oh, just popped to Asda and Debenhams (there is one locally).
Him "Oh, right, Debenhams hey - what did you go there for?"
Me "Nothing much, just a look around".
Him "Just a look around?"
Me "Yes. Asda gets a bit boring".
I move the conversation on to something else and it involves whether or not we should leave DD with his mum when she babysits or whether she should come here (which she is loathe to do, she is always on about dropping DD off there even though it is not as good for DD or us as all DD's things are here).
DH gets a bit tetchy and says how we only have to tell DMIL to come here. I say its more awkward for me to say that than him etc.
Pause, then
Him "So what did you go to Debenhams for?"
Me "Oh, just a look around" (blushing)
Him "Seems a long way to go for just a look around".
Me "Well we fancied a change of scenery" (blushing madly)
Him "Why go to Debenhams for a change of scenery?" (to DD: "Your mums such a bad liar").
Me "Well, we did, so that's it"
Him "what did you buy"
Me "Nothing much"
Him "Nothing much?"
Me "Look, why do you keep pressing it DH?"
Him "I just wondered why you'd go to Debenhams for a look around"
Me "OK IF YOU MUST KNOW I WENT TO BUY YOUR ANNIVERSARY PRESENT, OK?!!"
DH instead of backing down, gets right on his high horse and starts going on in an injured tone about how he was only asking etc.
I know damn well he was annoyed about me passing comment on his mum and was needling me in return because it was obvious what I was going to Debenhams for.
It ended with me stomping upstairs to get the present I'd planned so carefully for weeks and dumping it on his lap
Then he did the same to me.
We are not talking.
What to do next?!?
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ChocFridgeCake · 17/04/2009 08:36
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