I need a bit of a rant. Dp works f/t and I look after our 14 mo old. 4 nights week, I go out to work as soon as he gets home until 10 or 11pm. It's a lot of heavy lifting and carrying involved unlike dp's office job.
The housework issue has been raising it's ugly head recently as dp does nothing round the house. Big, fat zero. It's pretty difficult for me to get anything done with ds constantly using my legs as a pulling up and standing shakily device. Still I manage to clean and cook. Only to go out work and come home to find the dishes sitting, washing he knew he needed done for the next day (so I have to sit up until the cycle's finished while he swans off to bed), and the house trashed.
This morning I'd had enough and rang dp to give off to him as once again I came down to find the living room a mess with all manner of choking hazards strewn about and a big pile of dishes as dp had mates round. I told him he was being selfish expecting me to do everything around the house and go out to work but he comes home from work, looks after ds for an hour before his bed and then does nothing. He then said to me he'd rather I gave up my pt job (money we can really use right now, not to mention the little bit of sanity it gives me) than him do housework.
How selfish and lazy can you get??? I'm so not BU am I, to ask him just to do a little bit round the house?
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To be peed off that p is so lazy he'd rather I gave up my p/t job than him do housework
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trixiethepixie · 11/12/2008 15:33
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