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Sex, Sex, Sex - my lack of it!

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sunmoonstars · 24/11/2008 20:40

Ladies, My little one is four months old and I think if memory serves correct I have only mananged to get a little bit of loving twice! I keep thinking that If i get round to doing the nasty I am someway negelting my little man! Even though he is asleep. I am scared we are going to wake him ( he wakes up through the night every 1.5 hours !! ! Lol and during those two times I kept thinking " christ I have to sterilise the bottles, keep quite in case he wakes up, God now what are the dogs barking at) soas you can see it was very enjoyable hehehe. Anyone else feel like this??? Please say yes!!

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nickytwotimes · 24/11/2008 20:43

4 mths and you've managed twice?

Well done!

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hannahlouhoo · 24/11/2008 20:44

Yes my dog barks all the time too!! No do it as and when you feel the urge!! to hell with the bottles house work and cleaning!!! feed your sensual side!!! pop little one in cot or safe place(awake or asleep) and go for it!!!

have fun!!!!

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sunmoonstars · 24/11/2008 20:44

Lol I wish I hadn't for all the enjoyment I had. I do miss a good bit of uninteruppted loving though!

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scorpio1 · 24/11/2008 20:45

If your baby sleeps in the bedroom with you, have sex elsewhere then you can get away from him in your mind

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sunmoonstars · 24/11/2008 20:46

Hehehehe I will have to try put a bit of Marvin Gaye on! Next door play that all the time and the sounds that come from there, there is nowt wrong with their love life!

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hecate · 24/11/2008 20:48

8 years and counting.

you forget about it after some time...

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sunmoonstars · 24/11/2008 20:48

I thinking I might go outside! If we do it elsewhere the dogs of the cats will be watching us. I don't know what is worse. hehehe Perhaps we should lock outselves in bathroom!

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sunmoonstars · 24/11/2008 20:48

Awww hecate noooooo

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girlandboy · 24/11/2008 20:50

Frankly, I don't think I've had much in the way of uninteruppted loving for the past 13 years. (dd is 13!!)

The deed is always done with one ear open for little footsteps/shouts/crys/creaking bedsprings etc etc etc

Must send the dc's to grandma's more often

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IwishIwasmoreorganised · 24/11/2008 20:50

twice in 6 months here. I really just don't feel like it It's dh's birthday tomorrow so I think I might have to find the urge from somewhere for one night at least!

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Umlellala · 24/11/2008 20:54

Ohhhh, I thought we were impressive to have done it once - and just before ds was 4 months. Have to say, it was surprisingly brilliant . Felt like when dh and I had just met!

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sunmoonstars · 24/11/2008 20:56

It really is a funny ole business this sex malarki! A lot of us feel obliged to do it to keep the other half happy and a lot of us just don't have the time but would like to do it. Yes girl and boy when mine is older I will cart them on to nana's house. hehehe

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occludo · 11/08/2010 06:21

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Alouiseg · 11/08/2010 06:25

Occludo why are you doing this?

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tadjennyp · 11/08/2010 06:30

What is going on with this occludo idiot? I've never seen someone so insulting on a forum.

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Heracles · 11/08/2010 10:31

Have you considered his n hers ball-gags? Kinky, yet practical. Smile

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Heracles · 11/08/2010 10:39

Ah, sorry, another trolled thread. Apols folks.

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EricNorthmansmistress · 11/08/2010 10:45

Do it in the living room! It's the only solution.

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tethersend · 11/08/2010 10:55

Aw, I always miss the insulting trolls. They're the best.

Was it a good 'un?

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ChippingIn · 11/08/2010 11:34

O c c l u d o is like horse muck this morning - getting everywhere. It's been dragging up old threads too... bored in the hols obviously!!

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sapphireblue · 11/08/2010 11:38

twice in 4 months? Don't tell my DH!! DD2 is 6 months and nothing but one aborted attempt here (still too painful!). Didn't do it through pregnancy either due to horrible sickness, so poor DH is well and truly deprived Blush

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mountainmonkey · 11/08/2010 13:02

And I thought my sex life was lacking since having DS. Compared with you lot DP and I are positively at it like rabbits! Grin

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FionaSH · 11/08/2010 13:09

Once you've realised it's possible again, the thrill wears off pretty quickly I reckon Grin so much other stuff to do!

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FellatioNelson · 12/08/2010 22:29

Occludo haven't you got some grocery deliveries you should be attending to? Angry

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