I've got a thing about roads. They scare the bejesus out of me regarding my kids. I've made sure my kids understand the dangers of roads from a very young age (they are now 2 and 4) and they are never ever allowed on the road or in a carpark without holding hands with an adult.
My friend knows this and that I'm very strict with my road policy. We've had this conversation only a few months back and when we've been at her house and shes let her son play in her road (albeit its a dead end and shes at the end) I've not let mine join in stating it would confuse them if I let them play in what I've taught them to be a dangerous no go area.
So today my dh left the kids with her and her dh for all of 5 mins to come pick me up and when we return they are running around in the road and our friends were watching them from inside (they couldn't totally see coz their parked cars were in the way). I felt totally freaked out. I jumped out of the car and got them off the road and inside straight away. But I didn't say anything to said friends.
AIBU to be so bothered about this? Should I say anything about it or shall I just not leave them with them again?
I'm a bit freaked out that I could've run my own 2 year old over. Shes only 2 and 82cm tall so who would see her if reversing out of their driveway or something?
I would like to point out that said friend lets her 3 year old get out of the car on his own in main roads to get himself to pavement. He recently ran into main road to get a peice of paper he dropped and luckily nothing hit him. Lets him run around in my lane which is very busy and people hare down without looking. He almost got ran over by one of their neighbours etc etc. He consequently doesn't have any road sense at all but they don't seem bothered by it.
AIBU?
to be freaked out that my friend let my kids play in the road unsupervised?
babymt · 11/10/2008 18:17
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Blondeshavemorefun · 11/11/2022 13:53
now they are 16&18
tho I gave a good reply 14yrs ago 😂
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