i normally see my dad once a week, he comes to our house during the day as he is retired and i'm a SAHM.
At the moment he is driving me mad as all he does is talk about himself and brag about everything.
I had a minor op last week and he didn't even ask me how i was. DD is 14 months old and runs upto him to play but he talks over her a lot or asks her to do something she can't do like " find me the number 3 jigsaw" and then says "oh she doesn't know her numbers " so he puts jigsaw back on the floor and ignores dd.
He tells me how much weight he has lost, how much weight his girlfriend has lost, asks how heavy my dp is and then brags he is lighter (even though dp is much taller), tells me he is having a new car and he doesn't want to drive a tatty old car (his car is 1 year old, mine is 7), he has had new clothes, he has booked another holiday abroard (doesn't like cheapo breaks, we are going to haven next week).
i don't mind what he has and i'm glad he is enjoying himself but i feel like he is rubbing my nose in it a bit and basically trying to prove he is better than me.
he even told me if i just stayed at home with dd i would be boring to talk to and only boring people don't have hobbies, he said most woman are boring cos they don't have hobbies, i said thats cos we are looking after kids.
next week he wants to change day we meet as he is busy and week after we are away. i feel like telling him i'm busy other days next week so will see him after holiday as i need a break from him, aibu?
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ilovetochat · 13/09/2008 16:35
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