To want another baby?

[NaughtyNigella]

considering i'm a pretty crap parent to my first 2 and don't much like being a mother anyway?
what's with the genetic need to procrate? it's pissing me right off.

[skeletonbones]

well it doesn't sound like the best idea from what you have written, what about working on your relationship/parenting of older children first and then deciding? I've been doing a positive parenting course recently and it really has been great in improving my outlook, as i have days of REALLY disliking being a parent.

[lisad123]

well maybe you should spend your time making life better for your other 2 before having another one! If you dont like being a mother to them, then no you shouldnt.

[bubblagirl]

i think if you dont much like being a mother you need to get a pet something yopu can mother but pretty much look after itself and be proud of the 2 you already have im sure your not crap

[pinkyp]

lol i'm sure ur not a crap parent! not sure why u'd want another if u dont like being a mum. Is it the new baby smell? mmm....

prob just hormones or if u feel like u say " a crap parent" maybe u want another so u can try from scratch to be a "good parent"?

baby sit one of ur friends babys that's teething etc for the day - might stop ur craving? lol xxxx

[PosieParker]

Are you serious? No don't have anymore incest time and energy being 'better' to the ones you've already got!!!
You're not that bad right???

[NaughtyNigella]

don't tend to have much incest time at all thanks

[PosieParker]

Incest should read invest........what a fucking slip??? sorry

[HonoriaGlossop]

get your DH to have the snip, or have it yourself if you really mean that what you say in the OP

Take nature out of the equation so that you can't be trapped into doing it again!