ok, im single and have been for a long time.
i have recently started going out on a thirsday night. not every thursday, maybe once or twice a month.
Just before christmas i there werea few more nights ourt than usual, twice in one week and once the second.
my brother is 17 and is currently living with me. he attends a kind of part time college course which is designed to help him decide to stay on in education or give him a few extra skills to help him find a job.
he doesn't pay any rent or contribute to his keep.
on the times i have gone out i have paid him in ciggerettes as he has no other way of getting them he has been happy with this.
i go out on a thursday so it doesn't clash with any of his plans at the weekend, the children are in bed before i go out and he has access to the sky/comp/phone etc.
my parents don't think i should be going out. they seem to think that i am taking advantage of my brother by using him to babysit.
they have now begun persuading him to create things to do in order to prevent me going out.
it is so petty and quite pathetic really. my mum had me at 17, she has gone on to have 9 other children. she has only ever known my dad. she has never really had a social life.
my dad just enjoys interfering with other peoples lives and spendas his time trying to stir trouble within the family and bitching about us all to each other.
it really is draining but us older ones know what he is like and so we don't really worry about it.
but my brother feels pressurised by him.
tell me, am i really an irresponsib;e parent for wanting to act like a 27 year old occasionally?
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to want to go out? My parents are making it really hard.
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MAMAZON · 09/01/2008 18:55
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