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...to expect a GP to notice that I am pregnant at 25wks?

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tori32 · 11/12/2007 10:57

I was that when I went to my Drs yesterday feeling wheezy although not asthmatic and took dd with suspected conjunctivitis, that after examining dd the Dr asked me what was the matter. I explained that I felt I may have a chest infection but realise I could only take paracetamol. To which she said 'Oh, are you pg!'

Not sure whether to be worried she obviously had not read my latest history, flattered she didn't realise I was pg.
It didn't fill me we confidence

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amiunreasonable · 11/12/2007 10:59

Why should she have read your history when you were there with your dd not yourself?

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paulaplumpbottom · 11/12/2007 11:00

Did she have your naotes in front of her?

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OrmIrian · 11/12/2007 11:03

A little unreasonable. A lot of women don't show obviously until they are a lot further on. DS#1 had a bad fall and hit his head when I was pregnant with no 2. Took him to A&E and the triage nurse wanted to check me over too as I was shaking and breathless with shock - didn't realise I was pregnant until I told her. I was 32 weeks .

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flowerysantassack · 11/12/2007 11:05

Depends, if the appointment was for you, not DD, then you are not being unreasonable, I would think your pregnancy would be flagged on the system, I know it is at our doctors.

If the appointment was for DD then YABU, there's no reason she should have known. Even if you are showing she may not have wanted to assume anything in case you had eaten a huge dinner!

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OrmIrian · 11/12/2007 11:07

Even if she had your notes I personally prefer the GP to talk to me first rather than burying her face in a computer screen or a sheaf of notes, and only consult the notes once she knows what's I've come in for.

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tori32 · 11/12/2007 11:16

Sorry I thought I had said that i went for both of us, me ?chest infection and dd ?conjunctivitis.

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flowerysantassack · 11/12/2007 11:21

Are you able to book an appointment for two people? We have to book an appointment for one person, they only have 10 minutes per appointment. Although thinking about it I suppose I could book an appointment for myself and one for DS and ask them to be consecutive appointments.

Sorry, thinking aloud there!

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tori32 · 11/12/2007 11:37

flowery yes that is what I did. I rang and booked one for us both so they allocate more time