Hello Mumsnetters,
Thoughts on this would be appreciated...
Just had a NCT friend over for a playdate. We usually meet 1-2 times a month and our kids play fine together. Today her daughter didn't want to leave so take that as a sign it was ok regardless of usual squabbles over toys. They are both about to turn 3.
I invited them to my DS's birthday party next month. Today I asked her, just making conversation really, were they planning a party. She said yes, and then asked me questions about how many we were having etc. I said 5-6 kids and she said, us too, and listed them and my son and us are not in that list. I felt really uncomfortable as I couldn't help but feel hurt/miffed. She then said she wanted some tips from me about how to throw the party. I thought inside, don't be wet, say something, so I said "Are you going to invite any of the NCT group (meaning my family/son too) and she "No, because everyone's birthdays are really near each other."
Does anyone else find this weird? Weird that she would even think aloud about her invitees, ask for tips, and above all, for the odd reason for not inviting people?
BTW, she has enough room as her house is really spacious. She could accommodate 10, which is what it would be with the total NCT group too.
Now, I am not saying or thinking we should be invited but I found the whole exchange weird and I felt out of sorts for the rest of the afternoon. I tried my best to get back into a jovial mood, but I felt confused.
What does this mean? Is she insensitive or snubbing me?
I am not going to uninvite her to my son's party as it's one less playmate for him on his day.
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Would anyone else find this weird?
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Dref · 19/01/2017 17:05
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