Live with a couple of other girls, generally all fine. One is self-confessedly direct/straight-talking... and also loves drama and taking about herself! She's sweet and kind but can also be moody, and tbh at times hard work.
She was a bit off with me tone-wise today and I let off steam to other flatmate. Not bitching at all, but just very quietly said how I wish she wouldn't talk to me like that, I'm doing my best etc etc, and we said how although we wanted to support her and be good friends, the drama was sometimes a struggle! Which it is! But none of the comments were personal and in theory I wouldn't have minded her hearing - although would have felt bad if she had as its not nice to hear home truths...
She came down a few minutes later and we resumed our original conversation. She was still a bit grumpy. When other housemate had gone upstairs she demanded to know whether she was "walking into a negative atmosphere" when she came in ie had we been bitching i guess! I sat down and calmly replied we hadn't but said iwas worried id upset as she had been off with me before. She said she hadn't.
I just feel sick of the drama and walking on eggshells though! We do have another housemate who panders to her more and who has become pally-pally with her. Which is fine, of course. But what more does she want from me?!
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CountingMyMacros · 18/01/2017 01:43
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