It's not just a feeling. I am very much taken for granted at home. We have to manage on my income (which is modest) as DH has a p-t, low paid job and is having tremendous problems finding anything else. I help him as much as I can. One DS, back at home, barely works and though he's motivated to, he's not putting in the effort (is that a contradiction?). His body clock is all over the place and more often than not, he wants a meal cooked for him as I'm about to go to bed. I tend to make it, if only because if he comes down, he'll clatter about and I'll get no sleep.
Another DS, at uni, is spending too much and, frankly, studying too little, too late - often.
I'm exhausted and very anaemic. Have had severe pains. GP asked me if I was under stress. DH was in surgery with me so I made little of it. Didn't feel like saying that I lie in bed worried about money, worried that DH hasn't the got the job seeking skills that he needs (especially in view of his age - isn't easy) and that DSs are a huge worry.
My question is .. AIBU to have sent an email to a retreat centre near my place of work to enquire about a 2 - 4 week stay (for reflection, time to be etc) next month? Retreat centre clearly cheaper than a hotel and somewhere where the pace of life would, I think, do me the power of good. Time to re-charge, to sleep, to let the family, somehow, become more resilient? There's no danger of my wanting to stay away longer - I love DH and DSs but I desperately need some time away from home where I'm constantly in demand and where it's almost impossible to switch off.
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to consider a month's retreat as a break from a demanding household?
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Isabelle112 · 09/12/2016 01:02
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