Me, my db and gf, ds and bil will all be at my DM's this Christmas.my mum asked me to arrange a secret Santa for adults to exchange a £5 gift on Christmas morning as a token fun thing. I do it via a good online site that sends out invites and then does the draw. Sent out the invites two weeks ago and pretty much everyone replied straight away (you literally have to click a button saying 'I accept') it's less than 30 secs but had also messaged DS and DB about it and they were keen and enthusiastic. BIL never clicked on the accept button which meant I couldn't make the draw for names today. Texted DSis yesterday to ask if she could nudge him. Nothing. AIBu to think you just have to get onboard and click on a fricking button so we can do secret Santa, my DM wants to do it, it's her house, it's a £5 spend limit, its just really straight forward! It won't happen just because he can't be arsed to click a button. To avoid drip feeding I get on v well with my siblings and their partners but this has really pissed me off! It's classic 'what applies to others just doesn't apply to me'
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