Dropped DD to uni yesterday, 300 miles away to find flat (within halls) already a shambles, no remaining cupboard space for her stuff and a 'flat planner' stuck to the notice board which had a space for house rules that had been completed by three lads who stated their intentions as 'drinking, shagging and doing drugs'. I am far from naive (older DD at uni whose philosophy prob matches theirs) but it seems a bit misguided when you don't know who else is moving in. Anyway, not the issue really, just background. It turns out that the three lads are all friends from college an hour from uni. The other girl lives relatively near and has told DD that her girlfriend will visit most of the time. Poor DD feels totally isolated and already wants to come home. AIBU to feel that unis should avoid housing mates together for the benefit of their fellow housemates? And maybe mix up 'more local' students with those a long way from home? It seems that the majority don't travel far these days.
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