I love her, don't get me wrong, but my GOD, she's annoying.
We've always rowed from me being 13yrs old and "becoming hormonal" - her words. We are absolute polar opposites.
We've just had a blazing row where I've walked out to get away from it turning nasty because she started telling me how to parent and I told her it wasn't her place to comment (it was really incredibly trivial but it hurt me a little) and she got incredibly - overly - offended. I tried pointing out she was at fault too but no, she wasn't offensive, how dare I, then she started saying "I'll never do anything for you again, you'll never shout at me again in this house. Go on get out."
She gets offended but refuses to believe that she too is offensive. She does this with both me and my DS. She can say what she likes, how she likes, but neither of us are allowed to disagree or be offended.
The older she gets, the more cantankerous she's becoming - and the more offended (seriously, I need a different word) she is by everyone, eg the shop assistant in Aldi made her feel stupid, the people on the phone at Sky, me, my son, etc etc.
But apparently she's blameless. I'm at the point where I'm not going round now unless she asks me to. I've historically always had to apologise as "I'm the child" and I CBA anymore.
AIBU to finally realise that yes, we're related, but we wind each other up, so we need space as two grown ups? And ask how to take it from here?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To Not Like My Mum
5 replies
SheDoneAlreadyDoneHadHerses · 19/09/2016 13:05
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.