I have one DC and get asked quiet a lot by others (colleagues/strangers) if I am planning on having any more children.
AIBU to find this a really personal and awkward question? I was asked it again this morning by a well-meaning shop assistant, and it really stumps me.
I would love to have another child but the problem is currently that, a) I am recently single from a bad relationship, b) I am the wrong side of 30 so pushing it age wise, and c) I have fertility issues anyway, it took ages to conceive dc.
These things also make me feel a bit sad and I don't want to talk about it/be reminded.
Even if none of the above were true, is it still not a really intrusive question? Does one reply with 'oh yes we are trying, me and OH are at it every night but no joy as yet, we'll let you know when the result is positive'
I am probably not wording this very well, and maybe I am being over sensitive, but just felt the need to vent.
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morewashing · 15/09/2016 11:27
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